When it comes to rape, which can happen with a colleague, a friend, a boyfriend, it is hard to believe that these people would do such a thing, but ways to limit it exist; go out in a group rather than alone, keep an eye on the drink you made yourself, notice their mood and their reaction to things. According to the Huffington Post website there are seven warning signs that can help women avoid rape. "Your date tries to make you ignore your instincts, your date wants to take you to a secluded place, the appearance will lull you into a sense of security: that is, just because it's nice you will tend to feel an unrealistic security, your date encourages you to drink or take drugs, your date tries to separate you from your friends, accomplices and conspiracies: there may be multiple perpetrators conspiring to commit the crime, and the rapist gradually amplifies his attack so that the victim doubts himself "(Bradley-Collegiate,