raising children is considered the most important thing in building a happy family. Children's behaviors are mainly influenced by parents, so whether their behavior is good or bad depends on the action of parents. Some parents are not careful about how they raise their children, and then they behave badly towards their parents and towards everyone. I believe that parents are solely responsible for their children's behaviors, because children always obey. However, some people believe that children should be responsible for their actions. Many people don't know the exact meaning of bad behavior. They often think that what their children do is considered normal behavior and occurs with all other children, but in reality there is a big difference between normal bad behavior and non-normal bad behavior. Normal bad behavior often occurs as a reaction to a non-permanent situation. For example, the child's reaction when he is hungry or tired, he starts to behave badly, but these behaviors are spontaneous such as crying or grumbling, and just this situation ends, the child returns to his natural state and becomes calm. Abnormal bad behaviors are what always happens, it has no specific situation or certain time like hitting, insulting, spitting or crying and many others. I believe the first reason why children misbehave is that parents don't discipline their children when they make mistakes and don't tell them that what they did wasn't right, so they misbehave again and again. According to Valya Telep, former specialist in child development at Virinia State University, emphasized: Effective discipline helps children learn to control their behavior... middle of paper... and what's not go. Furthermore, parents should not be cruel to their children, and parents must pay attention to their actions in front of their children. They also need to solve their problems and make divorce the solution. Works CitedDivorce." Faqs.org, Broadcasting, May 5, 2010. Web. December 14, 2013. Smith, Melinda and Segal, Jeanne. "Child Abuse and Neglect." Helpguide.org. Broadcasting, July 2013. Web. December 14, 2013. Stiefel , Chana. “What your child learns by imitating you.” -Discipline and punishment: what is the difference.” Virginiatech.com. Broadcasting, May 1, 2009. Web. December 14.2013.